[Image Description: Fat femme Hispanic queer woman posing in a bathroom mirror taking the picture with her cell cam. She is wearing a low cut striped top and a denim jacket. She has a heart tattoo chest piece that is swirly and black ink. Her brunette hair is thick and curly and tossled.]
submitted by: shaktipower
Mod Note, Dan: I am jealous of the hair.
[Image Description: Photoset of 3 photos of a fat Latina wearing plum crop top, black and white striped peplum skirt, and black shoes. She is doing different poses in each.]
Top: Basic Plus
Skirt: Fashion To Figure
Shoes: Nasty Gal
Bag: H & M
Lipstick: Covergirls EmbraceI went to a drag show last night because there really is no better way to celebrate ~pride~ than with members of the community who really started it all.
I donât generally wear my hair up when I go out but I found this great purple lipstick and by the grace of goddess I found the perfect top to match it so I wanted to really give lots of face. Stance courtesy of my hip pain.
âMore and more people are coming out about having chemical sensitivities, or what some folks refer to as chemical injury. There are many of your friends who have asthma, have MCS, have been through chemo, etc, who donât mention it cause they donât feel entitled or want to get in a fight, but if you cut down on scents, they will be really happy. A lot of people are chemically injured through doing industrial labor- cleaning houses, using or being exposed to pesticides as farmworkers, and growing up in neighborhoods with a lot of industrial pollution. Chemical sensitivity is a POC issue.â
this is not only a great educational resource on MCS, but has a TON of resources/product recommendations for going fragrence free while being a fierce brown femme (or not brown/not femme)!!!
So many of the options are also cheap! Going fragrance free can be tough, try switching out one product at a time. Start with deodorant, then laundry detergent, then shampoo and conditioner (for example) if you canât go cold turkey.
The one challenge I have is finding fragrance free and/or chemically conscious lipstick and gloss (essential to my femmeness!)⌠Iâve been on a mission to find some. If anyone knows of any please share!
(Source: billierain)
[Image Description: Two people standing against a wall. The person on the viewers left has short hair, square framed glasses, their thumbs in their jean pockets and one foot bent and on the wall behind them. The other person has her hair in a bun one arm on her hip and her legs grossed. For clothing description see below.]
The weather was brisk today and I wanted to take full advantage of it. In case my face looks familiar to some of you, itâs because quelola, a mod at Fat People Of Color, is my identical twin sister. I discussed with her juxtaposing a few outfits this month to show how uniquely different our styles can be.
Iâm wearing a thrifted Leviâs jacket that I cut the sleeves off of. My shirt is a Police shirt, my shorts are originally pants from Old Navy that I turned into cut-offs, my shoes are Converse.
Lola is wear a 2011 Coachella v-neck , her skirt is Forever 21+, belt from ASOS, Macyâs tights and Steve Madden boots.
( via chill-murray )
EVERYONE is encouraged to submit!
We really want to expand the range of fat bodies we cover. So if you are dapper, butch, hard femme, trans, dandy, soft butch, disabled, queer, bisexual, pansexual, asexual, lesbian, gay, any sexual orientation, any gender, felt invisible, other, othered, non-normative even beyond your fat identity we wanna see you!
We only have photos to last us until Sunday so please submit!
Also, lovely followers, signal boost this!
I attended the keynote speech from Mia Mingus for this weekends Femmeâs of Color Symposium and this is a list I compiled pulled directly from MY experience listening to that speech, a performance piece, and crowd responses. You are under no obligation to agree or disagree with anything below as this is how I am defining my femmeness.
Do cry whenever you want
Donât over analyze what that means to the point of exhaustion
Do wear as much or as little makeup as youâd like
Donât worry to much when your mascara smears down your face from tears, sweat, work
Do put yourself in places where many people think you donât fit
Donât feel obligated to have to let everyone in to your personal space
Do give thanks and speak the names of those before you who have made your path that much more bearable
Donât feel obligated to out do anyoneâs legacy
Do acknowledge that âfemmeâ was your motherâs, your motherâs mother, and your motherâs motherâs mother
Donât forget that your femme is yours, now
Do create art
Donât feel obligated to âcolor inside the linesâ
Do enjoy every curve, roll, hair, mole, scar on your body
Donât hide any those things because of fear
Do practice conscious breathing to the point of letting every part of your chest and belly and face and whole body puff up and hang
Donât suck it in Donât suck it in DONT SUCK IT IN!
Do embrace your ugly, your freak, your weird
Donât ever let others use your ugly, your freak, your weird as weapons against you
Do fuck up the bullshit that is normal, beautiful, pretty
Donât ever believe not being those terms by âtraditionalâ standards makes you less than
Do connect with everything around you, your body, your family, your soul
Donât feel obligated to explain your femme to anyone or to yourself
Do fuck/have sex âfemmeâ
Donât fuck/ have sex âfemmeâ
Do ask yourself questions as often as possible
Donât feel obligated to know or have all the answers
Do continue to add or take away from this list
Donât assume that this list applies to anyone else but you
(Source: quelola)
âI would rather you be magnificent, than beautiful, any day of the week. I would rather you be uglyâmagnificently ugly.â
*Femmes Of Color Symposium Keynote Speech, Oakland, CA (8/21/11)
Here is a transcript in itâs entirety of Mia Mingusâ speech.
(Source: fuckyeahfemmes, via quelola)