tierracita:

2013: Fierce fat femme of color magic
Happy new years.
Xoxo

[Fat xicana woman stand sideways with hand on hip, slightly smiling with long brown hair draped over one shoulder, in front of a purple and green backdrop. She is wearing a turquoise pleated shift dress with gold belt, grey sheer tights, gold earrings, and black flats.]
Tierracita is a fat femme of color badass! She also happens to be one of our moderators! 

tierracita:

2013: Fierce fat femme of color magic

Happy new years.

Xoxo

[Fat xicana woman stand sideways with hand on hip, slightly smiling with long brown hair draped over one shoulder, in front of a purple and green backdrop. She is wearing a turquoise pleated shift dress with gold belt, grey sheer tights, gold earrings, and black flats.]

Tierracita is a fat femme of color badass! She also happens to be one of our moderators! 

[Image Description: Photo set of three images of the same fat, brown, disabled, Latina. She wears a mint colored a-line dress with a brown belt and brown ankle boots. She is walking on a path looking down in the first two images. In the bottom image it is from her legs down as she walks one foot in front of the other.]
quelola:

Fuck flattering photos I looked hella cute irl. That dress is a size 10 from h&m so never trust a label.

[Image Description: Photo set of three images of the same fat, brown, disabled, Latina. She wears a mint colored a-line dress with a brown belt and brown ankle boots. She is walking on a path looking down in the first two images. In the bottom image it is from her legs down as she walks one foot in front of the other.]

quelola:

Fuck flattering photos I looked hella cute irl. That dress is a size 10 from h&m so never trust a label.

pretzuls:

Bonjour Gazel: 260.

An absolutely adorable fat asian woman. She is posing outside in a grey sleeveless A-line dress belted at the waist. The dress hass a white lace detail at the neck and matching white buttons. Her feet are crossed demurely in beige sandals and she is smiling and wearing large frame black glasses. Her hair is long and swept to her right side. 
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Oh you’re so cute. You look awesome. 

pretzuls:

Bonjour Gazel: 260.

An absolutely adorable fat asian woman. She is posing outside in a grey sleeveless A-line dress belted at the waist. The dress hass a white lace detail at the neck and matching white buttons. Her feet are crossed demurely in beige sandals and she is smiling and wearing large frame black glasses. Her hair is long and swept to her right side. 

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Oh you’re so cute. You look awesome. 

Tags: Fat WOC cute pic photo

[Image Description: A fat brown disabled femme Latina with long hair stands with her hands on her hips and smiling wearing a black dress with purple floral pattern and a black cap that says “BUTCH PLEASE”.]quelola:

🍔💄ALL FATS ALL FEMMES💄🍔
[Image Description: A fat brown disabled femme Latina with long hair stands with her hands on her hips and smiling wearing a black dress with purple floral pattern and a black cap that says “BUTCH PLEASE”.]

quelola:

🍔💄ALL FATS ALL FEMMES💄🍔

(Source: quelola)

quelola:

[Image Description: Photoset of 3 photos of a fat Latina wearing plum crop top, black and white striped peplum skirt, and black shoes. She is doing different poses in each.]

Top: Basic Plus
Skirt: Fashion To Figure
Shoes: Nasty Gal
Bag: H & M
Lipstick: Covergirls Embrace

I went to a drag show last night because there really is no better way to celebrate ~pride~ than with members of the community who really started it all.

I don’t generally wear my hair up when I go out but I found this great purple lipstick and by the grace of goddess I found the perfect top to match it so I wanted to really give lots of face. Stance courtesy of my hip pain.

quelola:

[Image Description: Photoset of 3 photos of a fat Latina wearing plum crop top, black and white striped peplum skirt, and black shoes. She is doing different poses in each.]

Top: Basic Plus
Skirt: Fashion To Figure
Shoes: Nasty Gal
Bag: H & M
Lipstick: Covergirls Embrace

I went to a drag show last night because there really is no better way to celebrate ~pride~ than with members of the community who really started it all.

I don’t generally wear my hair up when I go out but I found this great purple lipstick and by the grace of goddess I found the perfect top to match it so I wanted to really give lots of face. Stance courtesy of my hip pain.

strangeasanjles:

Yuuuuuuuup. Black cherry soda float and fried pickle chips at Fitz’s on the Loop.

(Image Description: Two photos, first one is of an alternative female POC with black hair and purple bangs wearing a lime green bandana in a vintage fashion reminiscent of I Love Lucy realness, glasses and plugs. She is getting ready to sip what looks like a fancy rootbeer float and the bottom picture is of some fried pickles with a type of sauce)

Fucking flawless woman right here.

- Dan

quelola:

queerfathungry:

“This letter is written to our fat community to express great concern over what appears to be a growing divide among us.”

Text at link:

a response to white fat activism

from People of Color in the fat justice movement

This letter is written to our fat community to express great concern over what appears to be a growing divide among us.

We continue to see fat activism growing and our community expanding, and while this brings great joy, it also becomes more and more apparent that we are not doing the work to prevent our community from being divided along race and socio-economic lines. We are not having the hard conversation needed to build the truly solid foundation of inclusivity and diversity that we rest much of our argument of anti-oppression upon. This is particularly important since both government programs and the diet industry have been specifically singling out and targeting people of color in recent campaigns. From Michelle Obama’s selection of Beyonce Knowles as the face of her national campaign against obese children to the disproportionate number of children of color represented in the state of Georgia’s “Strong4Life” campaign, the face of the “obesity epidemic” in public policy has largely become people of color. Similarly, the diet industry has focused several of its most recent national advertising campaigns around African American celebrity icons, including the selection of Janet Jackson as a representative of Nutria System, and Charles Barkley and Jennifer Hudson as spokespeople for Weight Watchers.

While fat activism in the United States continues to be predominantly white, there is an emerging wave of fat People of Color (POC) activists moving out into all aspects of our communities. Joining with fat POC activists who have been working for years to create space for the unique challenges faced by POC within our mainstream diet culture, this has the potential to be a time of enormous shift in the perception and face of fat activism in the U.S. We are excited to be a part of this paradigm shift, and to see more of our experience reflected in the work of fat activism.

We hold grassroots organizing in high regard, because we know from experience that having established relationships with individuals aids in activating their enthusiasm for a project. While this is true, it also limits the reach of our work to our personal networks and circles. This is especially troublesome in the world of social media platforms like Facebook. Sending out an invitation for all contacts to participate is not the same as doing the thoughtful work of being inclusive, which requires planning, communication among groups, and transparency. Blanket invitation through social media, or “crowd sourcing,” returns a large response from those already closely related to the issue, who often share the initiator’s stance, privileges, and power.

This can be seen in the recent “Stand4Kids” campaign, most recently renamed the “I stand against weight bullying” campaign (seen here) launched by Marilyn Wann. This campaign is a great example of a provocative and direct action within the fat community, created to address fat shaming and body prejudice aimed at the children of Georgia through positive images of people of all sizes. The Georgia campaign “Strong4Life” (mentioned earlier in this letter) features a high number of children of color, and is being primarily aimed at children of color in Georgia’s poor neighborhoods. The primary organizer of “Stand4Kids/I stand against weight bullying” does not share these lived experiences, and while that truth does not mean that the organizer should not lead the project, it does raise a flag that the difference in experience between the organizer and the communities being addressed must be bridged in order to develop authentic and lasting relationships. Because the campaign launched through a crowd sourcing technique on Facebook, many of the first respondents were similarly white fat activists. As the campaign grew, it was reposted numerous times by many other white fat activists, none of whom were publicly critical of the lack of representation in the images and in the campaign’s design and implementation.

At that time, a group of POC fat activists began to discuss their disappointment at both the campaign and lack of critical response by the larger fat community. A person of color raised questions on the “Stand4Kids” tumblr about the tools used to make the project inclusive, the intent and possible effect of the projects in communities of color, and the ways in which these images would be used to support children of color in Georgia. The response was disappointing: these discussions had not happened within this project, and the commenter was told that if they wanted to support diversity within the project, they, as a person of color, should join the project’s Facebook page and offer solutions. More recently, the organizer of the campaign did address this posted concern to acknowledge that the proper outreach had not been done, and that she would take the questions posed on board.

As the project has grown and moved outside of its immediate sphere of contact, more and more people of color have began to participate. To date, the images on the “Stand4Kids/I stand against weight bullying” campaign site are still predominantly white individuals. Our critique of this campaign is not intended to imply that the campaign should not exist, that the organizers should not do the work, or that the images that have been created will not be effective in inspiring residents of Georgia to oppose the “Strong4Life” campaign. We offer this critique as one example of a fat activist action moving forward into a campaign without initial discussion of the inclusion of, or impact to, the communities it seeks to serve. Luckily, conversations can happen at many points during a movement; there are countless opportunities for growth, connection, and coalition.

The time has been long in the coming to again address the prevalent attitudes of socio-economic privilege and white-centric thought in fat activism. When open and authentic conversations about race and class fail to happen, we see these attitudes in the ways that people are left out of conversations. We see people who live with great privilege speaking as authorities on the impact of racism and classism, without basing their approach in the ally model. We see large size acceptance campaigns launched without coalition among diverse groups, thoughtful discussion around inclusivity, or well-versed allies on hand to help answer questions and facilitate community conversation. We see white allies depending heavily on POC and poor people to discern, direct, and implement the work of addressing these concerns within our communities only after or in response to work being presented that does not include their voices. We see white allies responding defensively and closing down conversations when presented with clear questions about taking steps to do their own work of finding ally mentors, addressing the ways their own acknowledged and unacknowledged privilege directly affects members of their community, and engaging in thoughtful dialogue about the interconnectedness of oppressions and the diverse ways those oppressions affect different members of our communities.

Overly simplified analogies of power and privilege are no longer the face of fat activism. We, as a large and diverse community with a vast wealth of life experiences and resources, can do better. We can go deeper; we can form authentic and strong coalition with one another.

White allies of the fat justice movement:

Flying by the seat of your pants, when it comes to addressing the real concerns and questions around diversity and inclusion of POC in fat activist spaces or campaigns, will no longer be good enough.

  • POC in the fat justice movement deserve thoughtful and clear discussions around not just the intention of diversity and inclusion in the work you wish to do, but also the actual impact of the work within communities of color.
  • POC in the fat justice movement demand and deserve that white fat activists build authentic collaborations with communities of color and work as allies.
  • POC in the fat justice movement demand and deserve allies showing up to the table of our campaigns and work, rather than constantly being told they have made a place for us at theirs.
  • POC in the fat justice movement clarify that our allies will practice doing the work of learning about the histories and impacts of colonization and oppression on POC, seek other allies to learn from and with, be open to dialogue, taking feedback, and allowing people’s firsthand experiences of racism to be the final and authoritative voice on the subject of impact to communities of color.
  • POC in the fat justice movement offer that through the work of authentic inclusivity, singular vision will become shared vision. Coalition will happen. Bridges will be mended and built.

We are looking forward to a stronger, more representational expression of fat community in which POC and poor people’s voices are heard, their experiences are respected, and their work to strengthen their individual communities is supported just as they work to support others.

Please join us.

In solidarity,
Tara Shuai, Co-president of NOLOSE
Galadriel Mozee, Co-president of NOLOSE
Virgie Tovar
Geleni Fontaine
Margarita Feminista
Julia Starkey
Amy Ongiri
M. Taueret Davis
Naima Lowe

I love this I live this.

Please please please read this! I would have bolded for emphasis but it is all so important!

marfmellow:

lizatfirstsightinthetardis:

glitterstainedsoul:

I bought this dress the other day and I’m in love with it

Can I say I’m in love with you!!?l Omg though this outfit is perfect and the hairr!!<3

she’s gorgeous!

[Image Description: A Mexican woman stands in front of a mirror wearing an ombre style halter dress. The top is aqua blue and the bottom is purple. She wears a brown belt under the breast line and a jean jacket. She has one hand on her hip and her hair in a bun.]

marfmellow:

lizatfirstsightinthetardis:

glitterstainedsoul:

I bought this dress the other day and I’m in love with it

Can I say I’m in love with you!!?l Omg though this outfit is perfect and the hairr!!<3

she’s gorgeous!

[Image Description: A Mexican woman stands in front of a mirror wearing an ombre style halter dress. The top is aqua blue and the bottom is purple. She wears a brown belt under the breast line and a jean jacket. She has one hand on her hip and her hair in a bun.]

(Source: teenage-beautyy)

quelola:

[Image Description: a photo of me in front of a tree with hands on my hips. Not pictured: black wedges with a zipper on the side.] Noche bueno post-gift opening and wand ceremony for the niblings.
Close up of accessories.

quelola:

[Image Description: a photo of me in front of a tree with hands on my hips. Not pictured: black wedges with a zipper on the side.]
Noche bueno post-gift opening and wand ceremony for the niblings.

Close up of accessories.

Show us what this time of year means to you!

Poems, short stories, about the feelings this time of year brings.
What are you wearing? How are you celebrating the holidays if at all?
What does the year ending mean to you?
Draw, paint, create something to share!

If you want to submit something not related to what is said above then go right on ahead! It’s all love! I’ll be working through submissions starting Monday!